Good morning, CoSo!
It's fair for people to want to be safe and secure. But too often people confuse brag and swagger and 'tough talk' with an ability to keep one safe. These things have no relation to one another. The most effective people are generally the quietest.
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@DavidSalo I was just thinking, in a tangential matter to your post, that Self Absorption is NOT the same as Self Awareness.