@DavidSalo In the dojo I have to counsel my more advanced students to perceive and challenge the juniors, not to overwhelm. They also need this perception when dealing with more advanced people, but the senior should set the level based on where the partner is. Each member of the pair might learn something different but they both learn something. The only advanced ones who are all like "I'm a shame dis beginner" are people coming in from other styles - so I have to make your point to them.