Did some very unexpected reflecting today. I'm starting to realize while some grudges that I carry are well justified (iykyk) , others I probably should have let go 30+ years ago especially when the other person sincerely tried to make amends and I was too bullheaded in my grudge to accept. Now that person is no longer here.
That said, it's time to let go of the past. I feel because I don't forget (again most of you know my ability to recall things as kids is better than most) (1)