So in my adult life I have asked two men out. I thought they were interested in me and I took that HUGE risk and asked them out. Both times I was told NO! So I am sooo hesitant to ask any more out just because, I for sure, thought they had interest in me and for them to say no bruised my ego to no end. So for many years I refused to take that leap again (I give you guys credit cuz it sucks to hear no)

I see this guy on my bus and I am not sure if I should ask him out. I am just not sure if he’s married. He’s a construction worker and cute and I see him stare at me and I try to smile but I get so shy I am just not sure if I should take another risk and make the leap as I don’t know if I can deal with another rejection lol. I mean my ego is not so bruised but not sure how I’ll react if he tells me anything other than yes lol.