@Nick_Searles that was a nice answer.

mine would have been:

'and grandma can go fuck herself'.

but i gotta say, my pati would never had said that about my mom. she knew how hard my mom worked. she hadn't always been kind to my mom. but she knew my mom had a hard life once she married & she tried to help my mom as much as she could, even tho she was old & not very well at that point.