Iām sure my brain is overthinking everything. But I am worried that I am the reason my kiddoās friendsā parents havenāt texted. I am also wondering if I might have found the source of her anxious questioning several months back if I was her āreal mom.ā Because her squad is all girls of two Indian parents. And sheās got one Indian parent and one Caucasian parent (me.)
And because I am overthinking it, I am so worried about her desire to fit in to both but never feeling fully āinā with either. š«
@MotherDucker Good on ya āāā
Good decision. We all need help from time to time.
@MotherDucker sorry you didn't get the response you had hoped for and the reasoning just may be the case. Adults don't always have the best interests of their children in mind when being bigots.
I also feel gross for even thinking itās about me. Itās notāitās about my kid and her finding her way. I will never fully understand some of the struggles she will face. And that makes me feel inadequate.
And this is why I started therapy. š