I was taught there are 2 types of people. A good person & a bad person. The good person means well but makes mistakes while the bad person aims to be bad & hurtful.
I've always considered myself to be a good person. I've always tried to do the right things but I've made alot of mistakes, many of which caused my divorce.
However now I feel like I'm the bad person, based on her remarks, when in my heart I know I'm not. It weighs on me greatly & makes me question myself 😣 😥
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@MarvelousMadi13 Well then i'll say it again--i would give little weight to your ex right now, because they obviously have a bias. I would trust the opinions of your friends (and not the ones you have mutually but YOUR friends)at this time.
And also, if you're wanting (and trying) to be a good person, then at least you're making an effort. Sitting by and telling someone they're awful (like the ex is doing) isn't helpful at all, in my opinion.