So in my adult life I have asked two men out. I thought they were interested in me and I took that HUGE risk and asked them out. Both times I was told NO! So I am sooo hesitant to ask any more out just because, I for sure, thought they had interest in me and for them to say no bruised my ego to no end. So for many years I refused to take that leap again (I give you guys credit cuz it sucks to hear no)