Okay, offline to write.

One last Remembrance Day note, for all the vets here:

When this day of so much public mourning & veneration has passed, & society moves on to its next seasonal event, your mental health & well-being, especially when thinking on those you lost, won't matter any less.

Take good care of yourselves.

May you always have company you trust--people who understand what you've been through, & how it sits in you today--& all the resources you need for any battles that lie ahead.