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Gender is such a funny business.
In Colombia I dress femme because it's safer than looking like a tourist.
I also detest the word nonbinary, but it's what's in vogue for those of us who were happily agender / genderqueer in other eras. Gender happens *to* me; I've got no internal sense of "being" a gender either way.
Some enbies identify as trans. I do not. But boy howdy am I aware of the safety that "passing" provides.
May our world one day be safer for us all.