This post ties into the single parent household. This will give food for thought if you read both posts. This also ties into the would if I could part of the poll, as well as not an option.
Now there will be some temptation to bring up women making less then men, or equality between the sexes. PLEASE, lets refrain from that for a moment and focus on the children in these households and current school shutdowns. plenty of time to debate later.
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/10/14/women-live-paycheck-to-paycheck-roughly-5-times-as-often-as-men.html