Kobe's death has brought on a very fascinating discussion on how some choose to remember others who have done a lot of good, but also some really bad. Especially in the Me Too era. You can be mad at him for everything that happened in Colorado but still feel terrible for the loss that Vanessa and surviving children are going through.

We can't tell others how to feel, but we do what we should always do. Either agree OR be sympathetic to an opposing views.