#forgiveness David Gerrold has been talking about this for several weeks in his writing seminar. This is a link (free article) in the NYT opinion section re: forgiveness by a minister regarding the inability of Americans and Christian Americans to forgive.
Yeah, it gets religious at the end, but the point is that until we learn to see each other with humanity and compassion, things are going to continue to worsen.
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/03/opinion/tim-keller-forgiveness.html