The worst part of living with an elder is the gaslighting. My mom just basically called me a liar. She left some shopping bags in the other cart, dumped the cart and grabbed another. Didn’t even notice that she lost the shopping bags. Found them outside and she denied it. So sure they must have walked from the car to the door of the store by themselves.

She told me I was impossible to live with. Fine, whatever. If it was easy to find an apt in Los Angeles I’d be out in a heart beat.