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So my wife has a lot of trouble breathing, to the extent where surgery for her nose makes sense. Like it is really a problem. I've saved up nearly enough to pay for this (it is... not inexpensive).
I'm a bit worried because she's sensitive about her nose. I think it's adorable but she hates it and I don't want to make her feel like I'm suggesting this surgery because I want her to have a different nose.
What do?
@Expecting_Words Tell how sad you’ll be to see her sweet nose changed but if she is healthier/able to breathe better it will be well worth the sacrifice.
@Expecting_Words This is soooo incredibly thoughtful and lovely!
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Dunno what *you* should do.
*I* would go with a gentle approach about the breathing problem and explain that out of concern for _health_ this is done, it is there should she want it.
Provide the option, leave the choice to her.