@CriticalCupcake Not in my particular case!

Then again, my particular combination of key traits is very, very rare... to such an extent that my odds of meeting a woman who's perfectly compatible in my entire lifetime are likely (based on population-level statistics, & using the simplifying assumption that encounters are totally random) somewhere in the ballpark of 1 in 120, so I'm probably not a representative example.

Also, I think similarity's a better recipe for a harmonious relationship.