You have to be your own happiness. It's an inside job. Because without it, you stand zero chance of being with anyone else in a healthy relationship.
@CinnamonGirlE and apart from healthy relationships, as regards to (alledgelly) friendships, I feel very sorrow for those ultra-competitive friends that pursue hapiness only by trying to replicate what makes their friends happy. My hapiness needn't be your happiness. What makes me happy, maybe doesnot make you happy. Everyone must look inside, know themselves, evolve, and be happy by their own means and finding their own way to hapiness...
@derblauemond
Heal thy self -please! So the rest of us don't have to suffer!
@CinnamonGirlE I am not very sure if you misunderstood me. My message just tried to support your ideas, but I am afraid that I was lost somewhere in translation. I am sorry to have seemed to make you suffer, but the "you" were not referring to CinnamonGirl, but to others. Anyway, I do think that nobody ends really healing himself throughout his entire life. Personal evolution never ends, and I do really apply this.
@derblauemond sorry, I didn't mean you specifically. I simply meant we all have to do the hard work. Otherwise, the people in our life have to suffer for our personal issues.