@phase I'm sorry that the joy of relationship, your shared respect and commitment, was so rudely insulted.
I think so many are caught up in what is "appropriate" that they no longer recognize the most tender and empathetic of emotions.. love.
But I am not making excuses for them, they need to make their own amends.
I sincerely hope you do not take their harsh words to heart. You must know how much we all care for you and @Render. Much love to you.