@White_Rabbit I'm sorry you are shocked. There is unfortunately the reality that some folks are wired sociopathically and trust me, I try to see beyond that. Like J often says, there is good and bad in most things and the task is to find the ratio and act accordingly. To say all people who are cruel have had a bad past is simplistic and sometimes consequences is all people respond to if one is lucky. I could write a book about it but not here :)