โ ๏ธMy little rant on genre shaming. #CoSoWriters Show more
So, this is my clean rant on 'dirty' books.
Is anyone else following the dialogue in the other Town Squareโข about there being too much sex in books?
There's so much vitriol directed at the steamy romance genre and erotica. We who write what some call smut are writing for our audience. I love my readers. Shaming someone for enjoying a sexy book as a welcome distraction from the chaos of everyday life seems like a really poor use of time. (more...)
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Telling any writer to stick to 'clean' romance (I wince at that term) is asking them to censor themselves. It's also preposterous.
Romance is never 'clean,' if you're doing it right. At the very least, you're likely to get grass stains on the hem of your pantaloons while riding your tandem bike with your beloved. Or that ice cream cone might drip a little on your crisp white linen blouse. Love is a delicious, dirty, sticky thing. (more...)
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But that's not what's behind all of this. There has always been a push to regulate and censor love. War is okay. Murder is fine. Gore is welcome. Love... No.
The romance genre endures, despite this, as it has for centuries. One of my favorite classic smutty authors is Shakespeare and the Bible is full of awkward love and sex. So I roll my eyes at all the pearl-clutching. (more...)
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The real reason for this complaint is that we who write steam and erotica are the first easy entry to more stringent censorship of other so-called 'taboo' topics.
Humanity is an odd beast, finding shame in the means of its procreation. Besides, sex is about so much more than reproduction. It's the expression of our identity. It's a connection to another being on a level words can barely express.
And that's the key thing here. (more...)
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While words can barely express all that love and sex are, romance authors and erotica authors have the skills to find the right words. We find the mot juste while other authors struggle with titillating text. And that's okay. There are many different specialties in the #WritingCommunity They are all equally valuable. But authors should support fellow authors regardless of whether they enjoy each other's writing. It's all hard work. (more...)
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More importantly, it's all endangered work. Writing anything is an at-risk activity.
Censorship trends hurt everyone. It may start with the low-hanging fruit of the marginalized voices and tricky topics. But, eventually, it spreads to kill the tree. Ultimately, it wipes out a forest.
I say #WriteWhatYouLove while you can and #readwhateverthefoxyouplease๐ฆ
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@AmaryllisLanza
"I'm not here to judge those who don't like 'smut.'"
This. Don't like it - don't read it. But have the decency and self-awareness to see that that's your personal preference and doesn't give you the right to stop others from enjoying it.
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โ ๏ธMy little rant on genre shaming. #CoSoWriters Show more
I'm not here to judge those who don't like 'smut.'
I totally respect their right not to read my books. I implore them not to read my books. They come with a content warning for a very good reason. Some of my books are triggering and others are just plain nasty.
Just leave those books for my lovely readers to enjoy. They deserve some pleasure in their lives. Everybody deserves that.
Life is hard. Love needs to be harder to endure it. Fin.๐