@ucantstop_me I went through a similar thing back in 1975 when my mom's cervical cancer came back after a 1-year remission. She told her surgeon then she didn't want any more surgery, no "bag", no more chemo. I could only respect her right to die as she wished, to die with her dignity. She was just past 60.
I can't tell you that it essentially makes dealing with the loss that much easier, but knowing that she made her choice does help.
*Hugs*
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