my mom did that to me so i know what that gut punch feels like. Hope things improve soon for both of you.
@Bliss thank you, but that new news is the kind of thing that doesn't get better and has already killed 2 of the 3 people on this planet I love.
@dr_zooks Was hoping that would not be the case. My situation was similar. Walked in to learn my mom had pancreatic cancer while battling breast cancer. She didnt want to worry anyone since it was incurable so she kep it a secret.
Only good thing from me not working, was I sublet my apt & became her caregiver until the last few days of her life. I was hoping your situation was more hopeful.
May I suggest you enlist help w/meal prep, food shopping, etc. so everything doesnt fall on you. 🫂