Nothing gives you clarity like seeing how people *don't* show up when something goes wrong.
The uncle who sends multiple 20-min VMs about his life? Radio silent after my last reply, in which I mentioned my job loss.
Ditto with a friend who expressly asked me to tell him how last week's meeting went. Silence since Thurs.
And a fellow who always sends me a long Sunday email couldn't be bothered to put in a word responding to my news.
Sometimes I just serve as a sounding board. 🙃 Call me ELIZA.
@MLClark
Why I’m sitting here debating sharing my health news
You do whatever you feel safest doing, Chalk. There's no right answer, and you don't owe anyone disclosure if it's not going to help you in your health and recovery journey.
I'm so sorry you're sitting on something heavy. I really hope you have folks you can trust and lean on, no matter what.
Your top priority is your own healing right now. Full stop.