When a woman says “no,” most men won’t respect that unless she “belongs” to another man. I have two stalkers now, and I’m about to get mean. I didn’t think I’d still have this problem at my age. It’s such an annoyance and waste of my energy. Don’t worry, I’m simply annoyed. I’m not in any danger. Besides, if I were, they’d wish they never stalked me. Again, I’m just really annoyed.

@LindaGoodliffe I would caution that any response or contact to a stalker typically encourages them, rather than warding them off.

@AskTheDevil You are right!! That’s why I’m not responding. But, if I have to, I’ve scared men off with terrifying words before, and I can do it again. I’m a writer (you know, the people who write stories about serial killers), a veteran, from Nee Jersey, and I have a rage that enjoys the occasional outlet. I’m just annoyed and pissed, and I can’t believe I’m still dealing with this. But, you are right, and for now that’s my tactic.