i don't understand how people say how it is 'hard' when they are having days when they miss a loved one particularly so.
If I feel like bawling my eyes out, I do! I feel that and I, well, not enjoy, but I *allow* myself to feel all the feels, to let myself miss my mother. To let myself feel the ostensibly selfish emotion of wishing she was still with me, in a way.
It's not a "hard day" if I'm feeling particularly emotional. I'm just feelin'. I ought to talk to my sister about it.
Hello Coso.
Life has been moving, and I have been desperately doubling down on all of my hobbies.
Thinking about becoming an electrician, so I can triple my income, and then pay my way to electrical engineer.
Also drinking a lot less. twice a week, at this point. I'm even questioning why I do that in the first place; my hobbies have no tolerance for someone who ain't sharp!
Yesterday I reconnected with a song I have not heard in ages. And it was a song that was only searchable via my own available music file selection. These were listed by filename, meaning that I had to recognize every group of garbage EDM I can recognize among the years of MP3s to find this song.
It was found and I am pleased. The mix I am most familiar with is here:
https://soundcloud.com/sebatu/sebatu-prayer-solarstone-mix
Thank you everyone who reads my posts. I like to have a place where no one I know is here and I can just be myself in terms of posting stuff.
And it's nice when people react! I've always kinda have been a loner, and I've come to terms with it early on, I think? Still figuring that one out.
But also I was in my late teens when discovering the internet and AOL chat rooms and fuuuuuu I was a lab rat of the wild wild west days of the internet's budding popularity oh geez
It's odd tho; I feel like I should feel guilty in some form or another, that what I've gone through the past two and a half years didn't fully prepare me emotionally, that it would have had a bigger impact aside from the frequent welling of tears and a good hard cry once or twice a week. I guess I feel guilty for not feeling guilty? is that a thing? Am I emotionally better off for someone in my position? my fears of secretly being a soc/path have long since been assuaged. shucks i'm welling up.
One month later.
I have dived (dove?) whole-hog into my hobbies that have laid dormant, with time restrictions lifted. I've assembled what I think is the best collection of things I got in order to get creating in a way I was only able to dream of even months ago.
It required a lot of careless spending, but I can manage it. My 3d printer has been upgrated from a tiny Tina 2 with a 10x10cm bed to an FLSUN v400, I have a 40w CO2 laser cutter, and a CNC upgrade that will allowe me to cut aluminum
attempting to be human. again? was I ever human to begin with?