@OnyxGhost ...i'm pretty sure i won't be the only one to feel badly that your friend was hurt on here. my experience (been here since '20, active in the last month or so) most of the folks on here are very welcoming & accepting-especially those who've been here a while. I'm absolutely certain that J did not intend for that kind of behavior to happen. 1/
@OnyxGhost 2/ most of the feedback i've seen from ppl, incl. many new folks, is how relieved they are to be here. that doesn't absolve what happened. i'm very sorry to hear it...i hope your experience is different than that, and i hope maybe some day your friend might reconsider & try again. I image that the *(^%#&-holes are in the minority.