Yesterday, someone I talked to on here, got banned. This is someone who made unfair claims and a ludicrous move to badmouth CoSo on Twitter. This is also someone who carries a lot of trauma and who is emotionally not all that stable and who lashed out. It could've been me: I carry a lot of trauma, I am emotionally not stable, and I have lashed out before. I wonder if instead of grace, I will be met with a ban if I act out because I am wounded.

@publickovacs likewise, we shared several chats about trauma and grief. What happened was a culmination of events erupting into a TOS violation. I saw the post. It was not kind and was directed specifically.

Now I am so sad about this. Those talks were really really good ones and I’ll miss them.

And I do hope they can find solice. Plenty of us DM’d reached out, tried to be kind and calm. They rejected us directly.

If you ever find yourself there and want to vent my DMs are open for you. 🙏